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This sounds like an interesting article, I'll read it later.
Allow me to start this with a quote: To think too long about
doing a thing often becomes its undoing. ~Eva Young “I’ll do it
tomorrow”. Does this sound familiar? Getting something done is
easy when it is something we enjoy. Unfortunately, we all have
lots of tasks that we don’t particularly enjoy. Even when a
thing simply must be done, almost all of us are pretty good at
coming up with excuses for putting them off: ·o I’m getting a
little over-weight! Who isn’t? ·I'm just not in the mood right
now. ·I’ll go for a run tomorrow, the weather isn’t that good
today. ·I’ve got plenty of time to get it done. ·What’s the
point, I’ll just have to do it all over again in two days. ·It's
not like they can’t do it without me. ·I’ll leave it until the
day before. I work better under pressure. Do any of the above
points sound familiar? I’ll bet you can add a few to the list
without too much trouble! I know it sounds funny when you look
at the issue like this but the trouble is procrastination wreaks
havoc in most of our lives. Why do we procrastinate? Some
reasons are easy to spot but others are not so obvious: ·some
things just aren’t fun! ·we are uncomfortable about doing some
things (e.g. preparing a speech) ·we don’t feel up to the job
·we are angry that we have to do it in the first place ·we have
had a bad experience in the past What can we do to procrastinate
less? Okay, this is a tough one to kick-start because the first
inclination of most of us is to put it off. That’s my idea of a
joke J. Procrastination is simply a habit. Like most habits, we
tend not to notice them (our own at least) most of the time. One
way to break the habit is to replace it with another one. A good
habit to replace it with is to examine your reasons for putting
things off when you catch yourself doing it. Most of the time
the excuse you were using to procrastinate just won’t stand up
under examination. If you have to, make a list of the pros and
cons of doing vs. not doing the thing you are procrastinating
on. I’d be willing to bet that a good percentage of the time you
will just get on with the task. There is a trap here! Try not to
put yourself down when you are examining why you procrastinate.
Negative reinforcement is depressing and leads to bad
self-image. There is nothing to be gained by telling yourself
you are lazy or you are stupid or you aren’t capable of ding
something. It is self-defeating. Instead, list the positive
things about getting it done straight away. Look at how it will
make you feel if you get the job done. Examine how others will
see you in a more positive light. Consider how much more you
will enjoy your leisure time when you know you have your jobs
done. Realize how much grief you will save yourself by being
proactive. In short, focusing on the positive aspects will have
a much more motivating impact on you. How can we make things
easier? Don’t expect yourself to be perfect Perfection is
difficult to achieve at the best of times. Most often it is not
only unnecessary, but counter productive. The law of diminishing
returns comes into play here. Do the job well and get the
result. Don’t shoot for perfect unless there is a reward equal
to the effort. Get you goals and priorities straight Be clear
about what is the most important thing to get done and do that
first. Leave the less important stuff for last. It is far more
motivating to know you have the hard or important things
completed. Once you have the job broken down it is easy to
prioritize. Break the job down Tackle the job in bite-sized
pieces. Don’t take on more than you can get done in the time you
allocate. This guarantees that you feel good at the end of the
task because you have completed it. Reward Yourself Make sure
that when you get a job done you give yourself a pat on the
back. Reward yourself in some way for accomplishing what you set
out to do. It gives you something to look forward to. Let me
generalize a bit. The thing is, we are all built pretty much the
same way. A carrot is better than a stick even though they can
both accomplish the same thing. But what is more motivating?
What make you more likely to tackle the job at hand? If you like
carrots and you associate the jobs at hand with getting a carrot
at the end, you are less likely to procrastinate. I started with
a quote so let’s finish with one I really like: Procrastination
is something best put off until tomorrow. ~Gerald Vaughan
About Author :
Ron Hughes is CEO of Adapt Information Technology, one of the
longest standing Internet businesses in the world,a public
speaker and frequent contributor of articles.
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