Well here's a paradigm for why we do what we do in marketing that can solidfy your strategies, and perhaps be used to explain them to significant others.

Consider the "Win-Stay, Lose-Shift" Theory from behavioral psychology. It's very simple to understand, and amazingly difficult to put into practice. Nor have I heard the terms used.

If you don't use the win-stay, lose-shift strategy, you're in the "keep doing what you've been doing and you'll keep getting what you've been getting" position.

Everything we do now we learned at one time or another through what's called "reinforcement" in behavioral psychology. We learned that doing certain things brought desirable results, and doing certain other things brought undesirable results. And then we learned to stay with the winning strategy, and if it was a losing strategy, to try something different: Win-Stay, Lose-Shift.

It's so simple, monkeys do it.

Experimenters place a monkey in a cage with a blue button and an orange button. The monkey's curious, like humans, and he starts pushing the buttons at random. When he pushes the blue button, he gets a peanut, and he likes that a lot. When he pushes the orange button, he gets a spray of water in his face, and he doesn't like that.

So what does the monkey do? He may test the situation out a couple of times, but it doesn't take him long to shift from the orange button to the blue button, and to stick with it: Win-Stay, Lose-Shift.

It's very important in marketing to monitor cause and effect constantly, and to pay attention to results--to ROIM--returns on investment slash marketing.

Know what you do that wins, and stay with it. Know what you do that loses, and shift to something else.

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Susan Dunn is a personal and professional development coach focusing on emotional intelligence. Visit her on the web at http://www.susandunn.cc/