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Copyright (c) 2005 Oyvind Hennum
Many of us do not consider the underlying belief system about
money to be of any importance. You think it does not matter,
because what matters is what you do now. Right, at one level,
but not complete. All ideas that we have learned about money in
the past are colouring our actions today. These are ideas that
you are unconsciously following, because you are not aware of
them. It might be: "money is bad", "there is never enough
money", "money does not grow on trees", etc. The list is long
and painful to read, when you realize that this is actually a
part of you. I was thinking: how come these beliefs are so
strong? Why am I blocking myself from financial freedom? I have
been working on myself for 6 years now, and the beliefs are
still there! So I went looking for answers in self help books,
personal development books, New Age books and financial freedom
articles etc. I have also done Psychokineseology, past life
sessions and been talking to a lot of people. The answer that I
come up with so far is: the underlying beliefs are coming in as
all other conditioning, from our early years. Some people
suggest that also past life experiences can have an influence.
Our childhood conditioning comes mainly from our parents and
then the rest of our family, and also from the environment
around us. If the idea in the place you grew up is that money is
scarce, you can be sure that this idea sneaked into your mind
somewhere along the line and it is probably stuck there without
you knowing it. You are just wondering why there never seems to
be enough money around. So if you now can grasp the idea of
negative thinking patterns about money, I will tell you to move
on. If it is difficult for you to accept this idea and you are
now thinking that this does not count for you, because you have
learned positive thinking, then stop. Look at the reality and do
a little check up: is my positive thinking really working? I am
asking you to do this because my experience is that positive
thinking and a YES! Mentality not always is enough. The negative
thought patterns I am talking about are deep, you can call them
"root thought" or "sponsoring thought", it is thoughts that are
lying underneath and behind your conscious thoughts that you are
thinking on an everyday basis. They are very strong and strong
enough to sabotage your new way of thinking that might be very
positive and good. I point this out very strongly, because it is
important that you are willing to look at your own thoughts and
to work on them to change them into healthy sponsoring thoughts
that are healthy for you and will bring you abundance and wealth
instead of struggle and suffering. To change these thoughts you
have to be persistent, you will need a burning desire to train
your mind into thinking differently. You will have to do a
little brainwash and afterwards a lot of re-learning with your
new and healthy thoughts. To train your mind I will explain to
you the concept "Act as if". "Act as if" works the other way
round of the normal creation process, which goes like this:
thought, word ,deed (action). An idea comes into your mind as a
thought and takes shape and gets clear, that is the first step
in creating. Then comes the next step, which is the word. In the
gospel of St.John in the Bible: "In the beginning was only the
word", there is a great truth, only that in the very, very
beginning there was also a thought - an idea. The word gets
spoken out or written and makes the idea more strong, more
solid. This is already a big accomplishment in the creation
process, but the idea is still not physical reality. This comes
in the third step "Deed", or the action that you do, to give
your idea physical form. Take a look at this practical example:
I had an idea long time ago that it would be great to have a
practical “how to do guide” on how to create financial freedom;
initially I had the idea because many of my friends and people I
met where complaining over the lack of money to do what they
want. As I talked with them it seemed that the reasons for these
problems often were similar and I had a feeling that there had
to be a solution for this. I wanted to find the solutions
(ideas, thoughts, step one), write them down, make them clear
and easy to understand, when spoken in a seminar or written down
(word - step two) and then in the end to make this article and
make it available for everyone who would be interested (deed,
action, step 3). As you are now reading this article, you can
see the practical result of the thought - word - deed -process
unfolded straight in front of you! Going back to where we
started, with the concept of "Act as if", we have to look at why
and how to do it. Why? It is because the process of creation
does not only work with the conscious thoughts you have, but
also with your sub-conscious beliefs. So if your underlying
belief system always tells you that there is not enough money
that is the reality you create. To train your sub-conscious to
think differently, you first of all have to become aware of when
these beliefs kick in. For me it works like this: There is a
Salvation Army officer standing in the street, giving out their
magazine and collecting money. When I see him I immediately
shrink and think: I hope he does not see me. Now, of course, he
sees me and gives me a smile, and I think, okay, I'll give him
some money. After all I know that this makes me feel good. Then,
for the same reason that I tried to avoid him, I also start
having second thoughts about giving him the small donation. The
thought goes like this: I don't want to give away the money,
because if I do, then I will have less and I do not have much at
all. How can I just give away the little that I have (root
thought = it's never enough money). In short term thinking it is
right, I will have less money if I give some of it away. In
longer term thinking, not. What I do when I walk pass the
Salvation Army officer without giving any money is to re-affirm
to myself the idea that I can not afford to give him money,
because there is never enough. So what I can do to change this
root thought is to first give him the money I thought of, I know
it is going to make me feel good, and then think to myself: WOW!
I can afford to give him money, I know that there is more where
it is coming from and I trust that this will end up in my pocket
and on my bank account, so I can happily share it with more
people. This action will then affirm your new thought which is:
There is always enough money! Now you might think, this is a
lie, but then take the new thought you have learned by "acting
as if" and look again on the thought, word , deed process. You
might think this is extremely difficult and everything inside of
you says NO! But still, try it out. You do not have to give away
all your money, that is not the point. The point is that you
give yourself the feeling of abundance and that you can share.
If you have very little money, you can give according to that.
It is important that you get the feeling, so you can start
believing in your new thought. When you say to yourself that you
always have enough money for everything you want and need, you
will protest and say: "This is not true, fact is this, and that
and blah, blah." You are right! Fact may be this or that, but if
you want to change you better start here, right at the root
cause of your money problems. This is a little bit of "Fake it
till you make it". You can make it easier for yourself by
thinking thoughts that you can accept, like:" I know there is
more money out there and right now I am figuring out how to get
it to flow into my bank account". Then you give yourself a
feeling of security and that it is actually true: there is
enough money! When you get your head around this one, you are a
giant leap further ahead on the road to financial freedom.
Copyright (c) 2005 Oyvind Hennum
About Author :
Oyvind Hennum runs the web site http://www.fi
nancial-freedom-made-simple.com
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