Spellbound Recognize the power of the container, context, and
expectations.
I received the following paragraph in an email the other day.
Please read it first, then we'll talk about it...
According to rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it deosn't
mttaer in waht oredr the ltteers in a wrod are, the olny
iprmoetnt tihng is taht the frist and lsat ltteer be at the
rghit pclae. The rset can be a total mses and you can sitll raed
it wouthit a porbelm. Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not
raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe.
Interesting isn't it? What's it got to do with facilitation?
Good question. My commitment to write and publish useful content
on this subject every week is a strong inspiration for me to
look for connections anywhere and everywhere. Fortunately, with
everything in the universe ultimately connected, you can always
find them. Here's what I see.
The paragraph I ask you to read above has three striking
characteristics that I believe are connected to facilitation and
how groups function.
1) Each word in the paragraph is contained in a consensual
manner. By that I mean, the first and last letter of each word
are "correct." By correct, I mean that each of us who can read
the English language and can spell, agree on the the proper
characters that begin and end each word. Without that agreement,
the words would be unintelligible.
2) The words form a coherent paragraph that define a clear
context. If the words were randomly joined without conveying
something that made sense, it would become gibberish. Consider
this sentence:
Wrod rset porbelm tihs taht iprmoetnt frist is ltteer be the
wouthit mses huamn bcuseae lteter.
This is a random selection of some of the same words in the
above paragraph that aren't arranged to convey any meaning.
Without the context of coherent speech, it's far more difficult
to decipher the meaning of the individual words.
3) We all experience life through filters. Declaring
expectations is like "tuning your filters" to my particular
station. In this case, I set up an expectation that you might
learn something from reading this paragraph. If you were to have
found it in your email without an explanation in the midst of a
seemingly normal message, you might not have given it enough
consideration to figure out it's meaning.
For me, the above exercise underscores three important elements
of facilitation:
1) Build a consensual container. Defining and agreeing upon
which behaviors are "functional" is "analogous to building a
container" within which your groups will function. This
container is made up largely of the groundrules and the external
environment. If the container is comprehensive, relevant, and
supported by the group, then they can pretty much do anything
inside of it without sacrificing the meaning they seek. Just as
the jumbled words in our paragraph still work within their
functional boundaries.
2) Define a clear and relevant context for your work. If a group
is clear about why they've come together, what they're there to
accomplish, and engage in processes designed to get them what
they want, then the "who," "what," and "how" of the group is
congruent. They form and reinforce the context for their being
together and will therefore present fewer barriers to getting
what they want.
Again, just as our gibberish words were understandable when
woven together into a cohesive paragraph with clear meaning,
connecting people with agreed upon objectives and processes to
get there will bring meaning and progress to their work.
3) Clarify and agree upon group expectations. When the early
work in our groups entails exploration of individual and
collective expectations, we can chart a much clearer course to
realize them. Thus minimizing the many tangents, disagreements,
and general confusion that often accompanies people working
together toward an "uncommon" goal.
Evoking and managing expectations can help people remove
blinders, barriers, and judgements, to better focus on the work
at hand. This makes everyone's work easier and helps us chart a
more direct course to our destination.
I hpoe you ejnyeod tihs atrclie!
675 words.
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: Steve Davis, M.A., M.S., is an Facilitator's
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